Friday, December 14, 2012

Thursday - visit to her (former) orphanage


Here we go again...

Fruit from the breakfast buffet


Sitting on my lap for the 90 minute van ride to the orphanage - no carseats in China
She looks a little like a monkey because she was drinking her water and holding it in her mouth to be funny - and because she just looks a little like a monkey


She is from a 3 million person town called Dongguan - the big industry here is primarily phone production.  Several suppliers are here including those for Apple

Entering her orphanage

It was lunch time in her classroom when we arrived.  All the classes from the hall gather in her class to eat.  They have different uniforms depending on their class.  She wore a yellow uniform

Teachers gathered around to give her treats

This is on the door to her classroom.  They gave me her picture and name.

Her teacher - this is the only person she has gone to since I've had her

Next, we visited her bedroom which is just across the hall - 14 to a room
This is her name on the door 
Everything is very neat and clean

She went to her bed - getting real quiet

Might be just a little tight...

The name of her school on the hall wall

Teacher said she was "one of the two brightest" in her class - probably tell everyone the same thing

Nice play area at the end of the hall

Getting pretty sad at this point
I asked my guide is it because she thinks I'm going to leave her here or because she want to be here
"She wants to be here, this is her home"

Time to go - photo with orphanage director and teacher
Teacher gave me her name and email and wants pictures periodically
The teacher did a good job hiding it from Francie, but she was in tears when she walked away

In the front area of the orphanage - 4 story orphanage with 900 kids
Telling her we'll be good to her - "Talk is cheap"


The assistant orphanage director took us and another family who was there for a visit to lunch
They are adopting the boy on the left (age 9 or 11, can't remember).  They're from Charleston and have three girls.  One stayed back at the hotel with Dad because she was sick.  The lady on the far left has been his foster mother.  They said this is tough on her, but she knows it is best for him.
Our host ordered all the food - family style (be careful)

The assistant orphanage director on the left and our girl

Squatty potty


Next, we went just up the road to where she was found.  When she was about four months old, she was abandoned on the sidewalk in front of this hospital.  She was not healthy due to a heart problem which ultimately was repaired when she was one (here).  There was a note left with her which the orphanage shared with me.  It basically only had her date of birth.

Heading home exhausted (physically and emotionally)


Gnawing on a prawn at a special dinner
Yum...didn't have these in the orphanage

I have 4-5 more videos to include with this post, but they take a long time to upload.  My girl just awoke from a late nap and she's hungry - will do it later


Thursday, December 13, 2012

Wednesday - medical exam day


Had to get up early for a standard medical exam 
Tried a shower this time - well received versus the tub

Ready for whatever the big white guy can dish out today

Of course...

Our guide from 3 years ago - Rebecca - returned yesterday all tan from her vacation in Australia 

For Cole - the new owner of a Honda Accord

Didn't actually get any pictures from the medical exam because I had to hold her the whole time
She didn't have much enthusiasm for the white coats.  I guess spending 88 days in the hospital at one year old for heart surgery makes you a little averse to doctors

Lunch a The Banana Leaf Thai restaurant was actually pretty good - nothing is great, especially when you have to always worry about whether what you're eating is going to make you sick


Decided to stay away from the frog overies


Maybe fried...



She loved it all - guess we will be eating at Lek's even more often

Decided if my other Chinese girl loves ice cream, this one will as well

She refused to even try it - guess she's never had any - we'll work on it

The previous two ads on this jumbotron were for the hornet nation -  just kidding - they were for the Mercedes M class and the Hyundai Santa Fe - as you know both made in Alabama

Santa climbing up the side of our hotel - Christmas decorations are everywhere - but no Christians (except the Irish guy who owns The Paddy Field)

Grouper

Some cute smiles at dinner
She has a scar on her forehead - Dr today wanted to know how it happened - I said, "I've had her for two days."  She doesn't take a bottle - I just used it to measure an antibiotic for her chest cold
big lips (like the grouper)



Read a little Goodnight Moon before lights out...

Big day tomorrow - we go visit her orphanage and possibly get to see where she was found


First full day together - Tuesday

Waking up outside the orphanage for the first time in years
"Toto we're not in Kansas anymore..."

Every day we have this large breakfast buffet and experiment with different foods for our new babies - after two weeks it feels like Groundhog Day


You return in the morning to the civil affairs office to actually adopt the child.  The first night with her is a test run - next day they ask if you want her.  I said I guess so...

Thinking it over...

New friends Jennifer and Boo Haughton about to sign on the dotted line

Happily inking the deal!

Do I get a vote in this?

First smile...
Not to sound like a woman, but she has dimples on both sides of her mouth when she smiles


We went to a Malaysian restaurant for lunch then to the police station to apply for a Chinese passport (no "camera" allowed) -

A little time outside in the Gardens - they don't call it The Garden Hotel for nothing

Then some time in the play room the hotel has set up



Then after some time in the hotel's children's playroom...on to our favorite restaurant - "The Paddy Field" - food we both like




The 7-11 has a little of everything - except Diet Cokes - I haven't found one yet
We buy our water at 7-11 daily - no drinking the water here




She opened up a little today - a slight smile or two - She is awesome!!